Do you still suffer beatings of her husband?

The courtyard twenty-first century - a century of rapid emancipation and free choice of women.  But implicit in the genes of a negative memory, and cultivated the practice for centuries to produce the truth of physical force, to thwart anger or "teach" with a fist - is still thriving! Family tyranny - the most shameful thing of the past.  This applies to those men who firmly believed that "yes, wife fear her husband," only through the use of physical force.

Meanwhile, the tyranny of the family almost always leads to trouble.  First of all, the victims are children of modern patriarchal despotism.  The constant violence they witness (I do not touch upon the theme of child abuse), have a very detrimental effect on the psyche of the child. In a family where there is discipline cane, where the daily humiliation of the mother becomes the norm , the child - the witness of the family life - causing irreparable harm.  In the future, such a child is likely to be a carrier of other ills, maybe even more refined and turned into a despot, tyrant, a maniac, or become a potential victim for other tyrants.  And so the chain. After all, drunk or sober, but despotic, and inadequate man-tyrant ceremony and "punish" her mother sometimes right in front of the child.  Similar scenes of violence (often accompanied by sexual violence) distort the child's mind and lead to moral and physical ugliness. Here is just one example: in pre-perestroika times, in the era of socialism, three teenagers - the twelve, ten and nine years - nine year old boy was killed, forcing the latter to perform sexual acts.  After the boy warned the others that will tell all the parents decided to get rid of him.  But to quickly get rid of the denunciations did not work, and killed a painfully slow: first beat, then threw the face into a puddle on top of the board and put the poor long jump on him until the boy drowned.  So, these juvenile murderers were raised in families where alcoholism was common and Domostroy. Which has disastrous consequences can result in the tyranny of the family?

Assault her husband does not heals a woman, just the opposite: the victim of violence, or may become disabled or die at the hands of the tyrant.  Yes, it may be the most dire predictions, but they are not groundless.  Grievous bodily harm with fatal consequences, alas, surely occupy in the criminal statistics of the niche.  And what are the consequences of tyranny in this case?  His wife (my mother) is sent to the hospital or the cemetery, and her husband (my father) put in jail.  And what kind of fate awaits children?  At best, they are sent to grandparents (Grandma and Grandpa but can not replace parents), at worst they can expect an orphanage or a boarding school.  And then his own fanatical school of survival.

What other options might be?

The constant fear, humiliation and beatings deplete the nervous system are women.  Energy in this family is clearly unhealthy, and tense family situation to such an extent that the patient women may burst like a bubble, and then to account for their actions is difficult.  It is able to affect many victims of domestic violence to commit crimes, sometimes right in front of the child.  Wives kill their husbands, and such crimes are much more than what the opposite, because women still have a chance to escape the violence - clutching an armful of the child to run away to her parents, relatives, or to hide from the neighbors. Tiran, provoking the victim , himself, passes sentence.  However, there are cases and intentional infliction of bodily injury up to the murder. I remember how one of the most honest prosecutors, who had met on my way, upon application to dismiss the criminal case against a woman who scalded with boiling water a tyrannical husband, authorized agreement with the following phrase: "You have to give this woman the Order!" Yes, the sacrifice relatively lucky. But here is another example.  For assault with a knife wife stabbed her husband in the stomach, her husband, deprived of the spleen, spent some time in the hospital and returned to the family all in bandages.  On the occasion of the return and got drunk again took up the old, and again got stabbed in the stomach in front of a two-year baby.  Here it is - the drama!  Pope does not, and mother of two episodes in a criminal case.

Kill the victim of their tyrants , and kill: a benevolent ax, a knife to the throat, the sulfuric acid from head to toe, then burned alive along with the house, as if sorry was not home.  Drama?  Yes!  Because children, as witnesses, get tremendous mental stress with consequences, and the wives of the killer is not exempt from criminal liability. Too grim examples, dire predictions?  Maybe someone will come round and will prevent trouble.  After all, if you happen to tragedy, the film back is not unwind.  But there are bitter examples, precedents, incidents, so take them into account - the victim of tyranny!

Husband beats that do?  Refer to the district inspector, a doctor, let osvidetelstvuet your bruises, contusions, abrasions.  Do not be shy, show beating his relatives and neighbors (the more witnesses the better).  Write a statement to the police only need to register it, write to the prosecutor's office, go to the deputies (they are the servants of the people ...).

Collect all the incriminating your husband tyrant documents: the complaint , declarations, statements, examinations, or store.  If the harassment continues, file for divorce, it is too late.  And here your documents and statements related to walking the chain of command, medical examinations and forensic examination must be submitted to the court along with the application (the claim).  In this case, the child of divorce will remain with you, and if the division of property, these documents, evidence should play a larger role, at least with respect to real estate (apartments, houses).