Do you still suffer beatings of her husband?

The courtyard of the twenty-first century - a century of rapid emancipation and free choice of women. But implicit in the genes of a negative memory, and for centuries cultivated the practice to extract the truth of physical force to break anger or "teach" with a fist - is still thriving!
Family tyranny - the most shameful thing of the past. This is one of those men who firmly believed that "even the wife fear her husband," only through the use of physical force.
Meanwhile, the tyranny of the family almost always leads to trouble. First of all, the victims are children of the modern patriarchal despotism. Constant violence, witnesses of which they are (I did not touch upon themes of child abuse), have a very detrimental effect on the psyche of the child.
In a family where there is a discipline of the cane, where the daily humiliation of the mother becomes the norm , the child - the witness of the family life - causing irreparable harm. In the future, such a child is likely to be either a carrier of other ills, maybe even more refined and turned into a despot, a rapist, serial killer, or will become a potential victim for other tyrants. And so the chain.
After all, drunk or sober, but the oppressive and inadequate man-tyrant, no ceremony, and "punish" her mother often right in front of the child. Similar scenes of violence (often accompanied by sexual violence) distort the child's mind and lead to moral and physical ugliness.

That's just one example: in pre-perestroika times, in the era of socialism, three teenagers - the twelve, ten and nine years - nine year old boy was killed, forcing the latter to perform sexual acts. When the boy threatened to others that will tell all the parents decided to get rid of him. But to quickly get rid of the denunciations did not work, and killed painfully long: first beat, then thrown into a puddle face, put on top of the accident board and jumped on them for a long time, until the boy drowned. So, these underage murderers were brought up in families where alcohol abuse was common, and domostroj.

Which has dire consequences can result in the tyranny of the family?

Assault her husband was not a woman heals, just the opposite: a victim of violence, or may become disabled or die at the hands of the tyrant. Yes, it may be the most dire predictions, but they are not groundless. Grievous bodily harm with fatal outcome, alas, take confidence in the criminal statistics of the niche. And what are the consequences of tyranny in this case? His wife (my mother) is sent to the hospital or the cemetery, and her husband (my father) put in jail. And what kind of fate awaits children? At best, they are sent to the grandparents (but grandparents can not replace parents), at worst they can expect an orphanage or a boarding school. And it has its own fanatical school of survival.

What other options might be?

The constant fear, humiliation and beataings deplete the nervous system of women. Energy in this family is clearly unhealthy, and tense family environment to such an extent that the patience of a woman can burst like a bubble, and then to account for their actions is difficult. It is able to affect many victims of domestic violence to commit crimes, sometimes right in front of the child. Wives kill their husbands, and these crimes much more, rather than vice versa, because the woman still has a chance to avoid violence - seizing child in his arms, run away to her parents, relatives or neighbors to hide. Tyrant, provoking the victim , himself, passes sentence. However, not uncommon, and intentional infliction of bodily injury up to the murder.

I remember how one of the most honest prosecutors, who had met on my way, upon application to dismiss the criminal case against a woman who scalded with boiling water a tyrannical husband, authorized the agreement with the following phrase: "We have to give this woman the Order!" Yes, the sacrifice relatively lucky.

But here is another example. During the assault the wife stabbed her husband with a knife in his stomach, her husband, deprived of the spleen, spent some time in the hospital and returned to the family of all in bandages. On the occasion of the return drunk and again took up the old, and again got a knife in the stomach in front of a two-year baby. Here it is - the drama! Pope is not, and for my mother two episodes in a criminal case.

Kill the victim of their tyrants , and kill: a benevolent ax, the knife across his throat, the sulfuric acid from head to toe, then burned alive, along with the house, as if sorry was not home. Drama? Yes! Because children, as witnesses, get tremendous mental stress with consequences, and women-killers are not exempt from criminal liability.

Too grim examples, dire predictions? Or maybe someone has come to its senses and will prevent trouble. After all, if you happen to tragedy, the film does not unwind ago. But there are bitter examples, precedents, incidents, so take them into account - the victim of tyranny!

Husband beats what to do? Refer to the district inspector, a doctor, let osvidetelstvuet your bruises, contusions, abrasions. Do not be shy, show beating his relatives, neighbors (the more witnesses the better). Write a statement to the police only need to register, contact the prosecutor's office, go to the deputies (they are also servants of the people ...).

Collect all the incriminating your husband a tyrant documents: the complaint , declarations, statements, examinations, or store. If the bullying continues, file for divorce, it is too late. And here your documents and statements related to walking the chain of command, with medical examinations and forensic medical examinations must be submitted to the court along with the application (the claim). In this case, the child in a divorce will remain with you, and the division of property, these documents, evidence should play a larger role, at least in respect of property (apartment, house).